What is the best strategy to help my mother, she is resistant to taking a shower?

Hi Mary, resistance to essential and important activities is a common behavior for Alzheimer's and Dementia patients. It can be extremely frustrating for family caregivers especially when it is an activity that needs to be done routinely. Many times the behavior is tied to a feeling of discomfort or vulnerability.

Below are a few tips that I have found.

• Try to make the activity more comfortable (warm bath or liquid medication vs pill form)

• Play music and create a relaxing, spay like environment

• Pick a doctor or individual that she wants to please. Tell your loved one that they would like them to do this.

• Sit down beside them or at eye level when discussing the activity

• Be patient this may take several attempts

• Look for ways to make the activity safer or more comfortable

• I know its hard, but don’t let your emotions or annoyance become part of the problem

Hope these help!